of Nadia Rosso,
"We are taught to be afraid of freedom, afraid to make decisions , fear of loneliness. The fear of loneliness is a major impediment in the construction of autonomy, because from very small and life has made us the feeling of an orphan, because we have been deeply dependent on others and made us feel that loneliness is negative, around which there are all kinds of myths. This construction is reinforced with expressions like the following are you going to be alone?, Why so lonely girls? - Even when many women go together.
The construction of gender relations has many implications, one of which is that women are not meant to be single men, but the tranquility of women depends on the presence of men, even when as memory.
This capability built into fetishes created us women, keeping material memories of men to not feel alone, it's part of what needs to be dismantled. A key to this process is to differentiate between loneliness and desolation. Being barren is the result of feeling a loss. And in the case of many women, the desolation ensues whenever we were alone, when someone did not come, or came later. We can feel the desolation at every moment.
Another component of desolation, which is part of the culture of women's gender education is fantastic couple hope. The accompanying devastation hope: the hope of finding someone to take away the feeling of desolation.
Loneliness can be defined as the time, space, the state where no other that act as intermediaries with ourselves. Solitude is a necessary space to exercise autonomous of the person and to have experiences that do not directly participate in others.
To face the fear of loneliness we have to repair the devastation on women and the only repair possible is to put our self in the center and make the solitude in a state of well-being of the individual. Need autonomy to build and require eliminating loneliness in actual practice, the multiple mechanisms that women have to not be alone. Demand a lot of discipline not run to see her friend at the time we were alone. The need for personal contact in a state of dependence is a vital need for attachment. In the case of women, to establish a connection with the merger others need to contact real, material, symbolic, visual, auditory or otherwise.
The autonomy is cut those umbilical cords and to achieve it needs to develop the discipline not to pick up the phone when you have anxiety, fear and great joy because no one knows what to do with those feelings, because we have shown that live Joy is tell it to someone, rather than enjoy it. For women, pleasure is shared only when there is because I do not legitimize the experience, because I do not exist.
this is why we need to do a series of practical changes in everyday life. Autonomy when we build fusion of links with others; when solitude is a space where interesting things can happen that make us think. Think loneliness is a distinct intellectual activity to think over others.
One of the most interesting processes of thinking is making connections, connect the fragmentary and it is not possible if it is not alone. Another thing that is done in solitude and who founded the modern, is to doubt. When we meet the other thought is committed to the defense of our ideas, when we do it alone, we doubt.
If we do not doubt we can not be autonomous because what we have is dogmatic thinking. Need to be autonomous
develop critical thinking, open, flexible, moving, does not seek to build true and that means making an intellectual revolution in women.
no autonomy without revolutionize the way we think and content of thoughts. If we were alone only to think of others, we do what we do very well: recall, remember, go into states of nostalgia. The great Soviet filmmaker Andrei Tarkovsky, in his film "Nostalgia" speaks of the pain of his loss, for the past, that no longer exists. Women are experts in nostalgia and as part of Romanticism becomes an attribute of women's gender.
The recall is an experience of life, the problem is when we use this space alone to bring others to our present, our center, nostalgically. It is then to make space development solitude of one's mind, of emotion, eroticism and sexuality themselves.
In the subjectivity of women, the omnipotence, impotence and fear act as dams that inhibit the development of autonomy, subjective and practically. Autonomy requires converting the solitude in a pleasant state of joy, creativity, with possibility of thought, doubt, meditation, reflection. It's about making a place of solitude where one can break interior dialogue with the other subjective and we do fantasies of autonomy, role but a great unit and where everything that is said is not in reality, it is a discursive dialogue.
need to break this inner dialogue because it becomes a substitute for action, because it is a leak where there is no vicarious realization of the person because what he does in fantasy does not in practice, and the person is happy thinking it resolved all, but has no real resources, and develops out of intrapsychic subjective life to the world of social relations, where one lives autonomy.
We must undo the interior monologue. We have to stop working with fantasies like "I say, I said, I do." Rather, it is thinking "here I am, what I think, what I want, where, how, when and why" that are vital questions of existence.
Solitude is an essential methodological resource to build autonomy. Without solitude we not only stay in the precocity but do not develop the skills of self. Loneliness can be experienced as a methodology, as a process of life. Have temporary moments of loneliness in everyday life, moments of isolation in relation to others is fundamental. and it takes discipline to systematically isolate a search process status loneliness.
look like a state of being - the ontological loneliness - loneliness is a fact present in our lives from birth. In fact there is a process born of autonomy at the same time, immediately becomes a process of dependency. One can understand then, that the construction of the female gender at birth annulled something that is part of the process of living. Growing up in dependence, this orphan process is built on women, we need to create a hopeless attachment to others.
Social intercourse in the daily life of women is built to prevent loneliness. The treatment is given to ideological loneliness and gender construction experience void positive solitude as part of the human experience of women. Become the subject is to assume that we are truly alone: \u200b\u200balone in life, alone in existence. And take this means to not require others to be our companions in the existence cease to admonish others to be and live with us.
A female typically demand is that we "join" but is a request to accompany someone who is weak, children, lack, unable to bear his loneliness. In the construction of autonomy is about recognizing that we're alone and building the separation and distance between the self and others. "
The construction of gender relations has many implications, one of which is that women are not meant to be single men, but the tranquility of women depends on the presence of men, even when as memory.
This capability built into fetishes created us women, keeping material memories of men to not feel alone, it's part of what needs to be dismantled. A key to this process is to differentiate between loneliness and desolation. Being barren is the result of feeling a loss. And in the case of many women, the desolation ensues whenever we were alone, when someone did not come, or came later. We can feel the desolation at every moment.
Another component of desolation, which is part of the culture of women's gender education is fantastic couple hope. The accompanying devastation hope: the hope of finding someone to take away the feeling of desolation.
Loneliness can be defined as the time, space, the state where no other that act as intermediaries with ourselves. Solitude is a necessary space to exercise autonomous of the person and to have experiences that do not directly participate in others.
To face the fear of loneliness we have to repair the devastation on women and the only repair possible is to put our self in the center and make the solitude in a state of well-being of the individual. Need autonomy to build and require eliminating loneliness in actual practice, the multiple mechanisms that women have to not be alone. Demand a lot of discipline not run to see her friend at the time we were alone. The need for personal contact in a state of dependence is a vital need for attachment. In the case of women, to establish a connection with the merger others need to contact real, material, symbolic, visual, auditory or otherwise.
The autonomy is cut those umbilical cords and to achieve it needs to develop the discipline not to pick up the phone when you have anxiety, fear and great joy because no one knows what to do with those feelings, because we have shown that live Joy is tell it to someone, rather than enjoy it. For women, pleasure is shared only when there is because I do not legitimize the experience, because I do not exist.
this is why we need to do a series of practical changes in everyday life. Autonomy when we build fusion of links with others; when solitude is a space where interesting things can happen that make us think. Think loneliness is a distinct intellectual activity to think over others.
One of the most interesting processes of thinking is making connections, connect the fragmentary and it is not possible if it is not alone. Another thing that is done in solitude and who founded the modern, is to doubt. When we meet the other thought is committed to the defense of our ideas, when we do it alone, we doubt.
If we do not doubt we can not be autonomous because what we have is dogmatic thinking. Need to be autonomous
develop critical thinking, open, flexible, moving, does not seek to build true and that means making an intellectual revolution in women.
no autonomy without revolutionize the way we think and content of thoughts. If we were alone only to think of others, we do what we do very well: recall, remember, go into states of nostalgia. The great Soviet filmmaker Andrei Tarkovsky, in his film "Nostalgia" speaks of the pain of his loss, for the past, that no longer exists. Women are experts in nostalgia and as part of Romanticism becomes an attribute of women's gender.
The recall is an experience of life, the problem is when we use this space alone to bring others to our present, our center, nostalgically. It is then to make space development solitude of one's mind, of emotion, eroticism and sexuality themselves.
In the subjectivity of women, the omnipotence, impotence and fear act as dams that inhibit the development of autonomy, subjective and practically. Autonomy requires converting the solitude in a pleasant state of joy, creativity, with possibility of thought, doubt, meditation, reflection. It's about making a place of solitude where one can break interior dialogue with the other subjective and we do fantasies of autonomy, role but a great unit and where everything that is said is not in reality, it is a discursive dialogue.
need to break this inner dialogue because it becomes a substitute for action, because it is a leak where there is no vicarious realization of the person because what he does in fantasy does not in practice, and the person is happy thinking it resolved all, but has no real resources, and develops out of intrapsychic subjective life to the world of social relations, where one lives autonomy.
We must undo the interior monologue. We have to stop working with fantasies like "I say, I said, I do." Rather, it is thinking "here I am, what I think, what I want, where, how, when and why" that are vital questions of existence.
Solitude is an essential methodological resource to build autonomy. Without solitude we not only stay in the precocity but do not develop the skills of self. Loneliness can be experienced as a methodology, as a process of life. Have temporary moments of loneliness in everyday life, moments of isolation in relation to others is fundamental. and it takes discipline to systematically isolate a search process status loneliness.
look like a state of being - the ontological loneliness - loneliness is a fact present in our lives from birth. In fact there is a process born of autonomy at the same time, immediately becomes a process of dependency. One can understand then, that the construction of the female gender at birth annulled something that is part of the process of living. Growing up in dependence, this orphan process is built on women, we need to create a hopeless attachment to others.
Social intercourse in the daily life of women is built to prevent loneliness. The treatment is given to ideological loneliness and gender construction experience void positive solitude as part of the human experience of women. Become the subject is to assume that we are truly alone: \u200b\u200balone in life, alone in existence. And take this means to not require others to be our companions in the existence cease to admonish others to be and live with us.
A female typically demand is that we "join" but is a request to accompany someone who is weak, children, lack, unable to bear his loneliness. In the construction of autonomy is about recognizing that we're alone and building the separation and distance between the self and others. "
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