right to be heard - right to know that there are limits right to know the value of "no" The children are in need of hearing the word no. It is a very easy word to pronounce. Just let the air out through your nose, place the tongue in the same way as when we say, nose, nones, turnip, news and Nebuchadnezzar. Then you have to put lips on a really nothing more. Given the many demands that we do have to learn to say no. Not always, of course. Only when convenient. We know someone will ask when it is convenient to say no. The answer, have we not, each must find his own. The All we can say is that intuition is always helpful to orient themselves, and should have a good dose of common sense when making decisions. Adults who have hairy to follow this recommendation should be tested before the mirror after or before-no matter-of brushing your teeth. Later need to know to implement it. If anyone has a hard time doing this exercise that imposes a rhythm. Maybe you do not every week, and so go forward until you get to make this popular word is opposite, yes. Right to watch TV for a while, and look together seems that television has become a reincarnation of in Banyeta. We live in a society has broken the traditional ways of representing evil, which has trivialized all-great characters-characters who carried behind the symbols of evil forces. Boys and girls, no longer afraid of dragons, nor the bogeyman, or vampires. No werewolves, or twenty-five-percent of women-wolf do no chin trembling. Perhaps because the teeth can not be taught the full moon, simply because in the cities is not as full. Even ghosts in chains and those pitiful cries as they shook the hair from the child tenderly. If any ghosts hanging around with his blanket legendary creatures, would put his hand on fire not lifted the edges to see if they have legs? When all these people sleep in the attic where we left everything rests with mothballs, and it represents a past of yesterday, television, and computer games-child-rise and new ideas of evil. If a teen makes a reckless, always find a TV reference. If a thin girl to endanger his life, always have a TV model for about it cu able. The causes of these behaviors so tragic, leaving us baffled as if we had received a blow in the middle of the brain, are very diverse and very complex, but they often charge the waffle on television. Television can present pitiful performances-in fact it too often, "along with programs that show a high degree of sensitivity id'intel • Intelligence. What we have to do is know how to choose and, above all, choose to teach. The children have the right to watch television because this invention, as all who have left the allure of human beings, has its friendly face and his dark face. This right, but, asks company, so that dialogue provides the child with the adult who shares the show will draw lessons that will help you learn, namely, to live, to live and love. Evil threat when the TV becomes a new nanny in a new metaphor for loneliness. Are also entitled to be taught to make a very simple action: turning off the TV. It seems that adults have forgotten this operation and when we do impose after a bitter argument. Perhaps we need a workout. It's simple: simply repeat the action that we did a while ago when we turned on. We can do the same finger. Or rather yet, we can change the finger to be exercising all these end of the hands that have helped us move away from the caves. Right not to know how to swim, or English or music or ballet or basketball, or karate, or ... prior four years, for example Creatures have the right to have an agenda as prime minister. Are entitled to have a relaxed life, without imposing this altar they sacrifice a future that adults try to imagine and forget that life is often a big surprise. It is clear that they must learn English and learn to swim, especially if they want to be lifeguards or search those hidden treasures that the sea. Clear that they enjoy music and even better if you can learn to play an instrument, because having the ability to broadcast messages will always have more wealth to be only receiver (good all day Christmas, when the time the family may surprise nougat with a piece of classical music or traditional). Clear it's good to be flexible and tunable to bear the weight of his body above the nails of the toes. It is clear that someone may be interesting to know the secrets of karate ..., but for everything there is a time, as the Bible tells us. To everything there is a time and this time should reflect the sense of proportion, and this is precisely the sense of incompleteness. When we orphans of this measure is when we allow the agendas of the children are full of activities that steal your time, time in which they must develop their deepest needs. We can not forget that children need to play like they need the bread they eat, because the game has the possibility of organizing the world, to imagine, to recreate, in structured and unstructured-lo. Need to play, they need a story before bed, need adult's hand when they have to cross a street and need a pair of ears willing to hear their stories. Since we know that adults rather short of time, so it can not be an excuse when it comes to education. They and they are our time. Bored right Boys and girls need to yawn to cu boredom. We are horrified to see a boy or a girl without doing anything. When we came across a boy or a girl who opens the abyss yawning at the feet, we lose the north and just looking for activities in the Yellow Pages of Telefónica. We are proud to open a range of activities that fill the boredom of the creature, as if we were available through dealers who have learned four techniques for marketing on a weekend. We are appalled that a boy or girl open. We have forgotten that sidetrack is to stop thinking on the fence, in a sort of no man's land. Distracted is to build slowly, very slowly. Let the spirit is empty. We must remember that to fill needs to have emptied before. Boredom is one of the mothers of creation. Boredom is that we stop to catch their breath. Is the step we back to gain momentum to go forward. We dare to say-and we have no study that we endorse, that boredom is behind all the work that humans have created to be viewed by others. Newton and Einstein were bored before formulating its principles. Proust and Vinyoli must pass before becoming distracted afternoon boredom that language. Right to know that life is sadness, fortunately for all, not a theme park. There are many situations that will soften, since the death of people dear to many situations in which human dignity is below the limits. Sadness is a feeling as necessary as the joy, because it gives us the measure of our human condition. Bored is bored and nothing to be sad. The Children have a right to know that there are sad experiences teach us to live, as they also have the right to know how to react to us adults, which invades enes sadness. Perhaps one must add that from time to time should mourn, both girls and boys. Right to walk to the supermarket without cart Smite with older people. The children are entitled to know that other people have legs, especially the elderly, that are tired and painful varicose veins. Children often fitipaldis super cross and push the car into everything in front of him. Adults say that 'show that 'll hurt, but they do not want to leave the adult picture tells so ridiculous that "the mother or father will not love you", or the other of "I'll give you a mushroom that seems like a thunderclap, or even what of" Look, I'll buy a stick of gum, candy and the bag of trash. "Result: they leave the super with his hands full of sweet goodies and older people have to go through the drugstore to buy a pomadeta for hits. This right hangs another: the right not to have candy after a good marraneig. If we know not resist its demands, it is better not to punish the audience with cries or shows that do nothing but show our impotence. Adults have a right to the side that do not throw cigarette butts from the ashtray of the car in the middle of the street children and girls are entitled to have adults who lead by example. The values \u200b\u200bfor living and living is shown by the consistency between the values \u200b\u200bwe want and our daily practice. You do not need speeches on, or affirmed. Just a little bit of consistency and fidelity to what we believe. Right to be heard The children have a right to be heard with the whole body, ears and eyes, with the tibia and fibula, with the heart and brain. They are entitled to be heard from an attitude not ask for explanations, not to punish, not critique, which does not issue judgments, because sometimes what we need is simply to feel welcome. They also have the right to confront, to receive clear answers, understandable and reasonable, to discuss their arguments with counterarguments, and all to learn more about them and others, which is the only possible way to strengthen coexistence. To be consistent with the first law, we must add that this right includes also know they can not answer "do not listen to me" when in fact they have felt is an "I told you no." Right to know that there are limits Boys and girls have the need for limits. Must know and respect to grow in harmony, a healthy and happy. Must be reasoned and reasonable limits, especially clear. We consider that not all limits are the same category. There is one that is never negotiable: we can not humiliate others. There is a good group that can be discussed, and still others probably will get to transgress. But even in this last case, it is essential to know what are the limits on what someone else has set, for those who play ... then, if necessary, transfer them. It seems paradoxical, but if you discover that a little cud, like many other paradoxes, is a good dose of truth. They should know that often need someone's permission to do that, they can not get when they want, they have no right to throw the shells on the streets of the pipes, which should be directed to the other trying not to abuse his image, which can not put music at the volume you want, you sometimes have to leave your seat to another person on the subway, which ... maybe if we have the right to reverse what we understand best: the worst that there is no limit to know the limits, because without limits is impossible to point in this life with a bit of sense. You see. There are great things, we have exposed. But they are small details that shape a way of understanding life and relationships between people. The examples could be others. Just asking, again, we know beyond the anecdotes to find some more. All this can be summarized this way: we shed our sons and daughters, our students and our students, to live life as fully as possible, namely that share their lives with others in need and who need them. We need to strengthen self-esteem, emotional balance. We need to make things easier for the outcome of their actions will be as successful as possible. We need also to give importance to the effort, the will, the necessary point of order that is the basis of all creativity. In short, if we help create a new life as fully as possible with all the frustrations and all the joys. We advise a healthy dose of stubbornness, patience and good humor to make this journey. These rights are a grain of sand at the address above target. At no time have raised as an option, or as a license to act in a certain way, and probably someone will doubt about whether we are talking about rights or duties. No matter, in our view, what counts is that we are part of a process that begins with the observation of the world, continues its interpretation and continues with the ability to make decisions and accept compromises. The rights and duties, and also the rights that we have described, are an irreplaceable part of this rich and complex puzzle, a piece that people need to build and guide our life meaningful
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